With so many gadgets around and so many social networking platforms, there is a chance for interaction between the opposite sexes like not time before and this raises many issues.
One of them is: If you are a woman in a serious relationship with a man, is it ok to have photos of other men in your mobile phone? Other men can include acquaintances, male cousins and relatives, celebrities, public figures.
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Why not ?
The world is full of images.
that is certainly a very matter of fact viewpoint
It’s depending from much more input,your question .
For example, if the mobile phone photo is used to please herself in the bathroom you may ask yourself : ” is this a serious relation? ”
I don’t know if women do that, do they?
More input please . . .
I second fons. Why would it matter?
what if it’s your wife jesus and she’s got a picture of some guy she used to know back in the day … wouldn’t you find it just a bit strange?
husband/bf: “who’s this ugly mofo?”
wife/gf: “oh just someone i used to know … ”
with trepid hesitation and slight murmur, wife/gf: “he was my first …”
yeah snr
I love the trepid hesitation part
lol i knew you would
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there is appreciation for your latent literary skills here snr
“…ugly mofo?”
I rest my case
Jesus
Come on, we want an exciting repartee between you and SNR
“what if it’s your wife jesus and she’s got a picture of some guy she used to know back in the day … wouldn’t you find it just a bit strange?”
Not really. I’m too handsome to worry about such things
Ah the confidence… just oozes
That’s the way
except that she may be into dumb uglies …
Heheh yeah Jesus looks aren’t everything
Aha Jesus
But have you ever been in that situation before? You won’t know until you the vicious claws of jealousy dig into your heart…how you will feel
You know what? I’d be more concerned if my wife/gf was naive or too much of a goody-two-shoes, when it comes to sexual matters. That’d be more of a turn-off for me than some pictures on her cell phone.
Very sensible
Interesting poll results I must say
Either they are mostly liberated bra burying lasses with commitment issues as SNR put it
Or the guys are pretending they don’t care cuz they have their own stash of photos as well
Why the cynicism, Jewaira? Can’t there be genuine trust between couples?
I’d go so far as to say that men who do ‘have pictures’ are more likely to feel overtly jealous because they expect everyone else to do the same ( as the Arabic saying goes: كلن يرى الناس بعين طبعه)
Am not cynical – genuine trust should exist
I think in the end it depends on the reason that photo is in your mobile. One might enjoy gazing upon C Ronaldo’s wahsboard abdominals but it does not undermine one’s love of one’s intimate real life partner.
However, keeping photos of old flames on display in your mobile is not very considerate of your current partner. It’s just respect
“However, keeping photos of old flames on display in your mobile is not very considerate of your current partner.”
But then it becomes a whole different problem of the man not being able to satisfy his woman, in which case they’re not compatible. Old flame or not.
In plain English, you are saying that if a man totally satisfies his partner, then she would never even consider keeping photos of anyone in her mobile including Spongebob Squarepants?
She might have some photos, but they wouldn’t mean any thing.
I’m not sure about Sponge Bob, though. Even though he’s rumored to be gay, most men are jealous of him and I advice women to delete any photos of him if they want happy relationships.
Btw, I think C Ronaldo is a bad example. No man would feel threatened by him
true. you’d need to pick a real man Jewaira
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ah don’t we love it when guys sound jealous
Hahahaha you guys ganging up on me again
I wasn’t talking about C Ronaldo’s person but his physique
Here’s another question: what celebrity would make YOU jealous, Jewaira?
Jesus I’m never jealous of any celebrities with regards to looks or popularity nor do I get upset with anyone who admires them
However, I may envy them their position and their job and the versatility in their lives.
you do? versatility? you mean the hollywoodian hookups and breakups?
No
of course not
what then?
Oh c’mon Jewaira, humor me!
I knew you wouldn’t believe me but I am not the jealous type
let us be fair.. would i like it if i found girls, female celebrities, relatives photos on my fiancées phone?
HELL NO, i will (ajeeb 3aleeha wateeha) i can’t stand that!!
its just that no one can allow such a thing… what reason does he/she have to keep photos of other people unless his/her lover (mish maly 3enah)are not filling his eyes!
i dunno some people might find it okay.. but not me
heheheh now that’s a more honest response