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Protected: the state of kusa bil laban May 26, 2009

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Emancipate your thoughts May 25, 2009

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She said:

“I have an extra maid I don’t need. I’ve trained her and taught her how to cook. I’m going to sell her for 400KD.”

I said:

“Saying you are going to sell her like that sounds inhuman. It sounds like trafficking. Islam does not condone this way of reference to fellow humans.”

She said:

“But I paid 400 KD for  the other maid. I have more employees than I need now. I just want my money back by selling this one to anyone will pay the highest price.”

I said:

“I understand. But simply using the word, “selling”, reflects the mentality of a slave owner. You don’t own her. She is a worker and not a slave.  It’s wrong to use those words.”

She smiled sheepishly.

I realized she thought I was making a big deal when I already knew her intentions were not to enslave but to get back some of the ridiculous money she spent on recruiting domestic staff from local manpower agencies.

Protected: Nemesis May 24, 2009

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The future begins now May 19, 2009

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We spent the night watching television and it was mainly Kuwait TV channel one:

That night was very long indeed and held happy surprises. From very early on in the poll counting, Ma’assouma Mubarak held the number one position in the first constituency. In the third constituency, Aseel Al-Awadhi and Rola Dashti were in the top ten places at fluctuating positions. We were rooting for Thikrah Al-Rasheedi in the fourth constituency who was getting great numbers in that male dominated arena. She was facing tough competition running independently in a traditionally tribal constituency that relied on pre-elections pacts and agreements between voters of extended families and tribal factions. The results of the second constituency did not appear till later and there were no real surprises there except for the very interesting position of Salwa Al-Jassar in the tenth position.

Four women at once? We were only wishing for one last year to put her foot in the door.

I was happy that I had voted then no matter what anyone else said. Change cannot happen through apathy. Change takes small steps and sometimes great leaps. We have to keep goals in mind and adjust our tempo and actions as necessary.

I remembered the flight from London. It had to be half full of Kuwaiti students in the UK coming back solely to vote. That was my impression. Such is the loyalty and cohesiveness of tribal families, that casting their vote is an absolute duty.

It is that type of mentality that is needed amongst those of us who are filled with malaise. Nothing changes by harping back to a hypothetical golden age. Change can happen by outlining aims and mobilizing people to achieve them. There is no time but the present and planning for the future begins now.

It felt right May 19, 2009

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At the polling station:

We faced some traffic congestion as we drove up to the school. I got out of the car and began my short trek into the polling station. There was a hub of activity around me. Women and girls of all ages were standing around handing out candidate cards and fliers. I took them from each one and smiled courteously as I moved on. Regardless of who the candidates were and whatever rivalry existed, I felt a keen sense of sisterhood and a great feeling of pleasure at seeing females so involved in the campaign process. I was pleased to see young girls getting first hand exposure and experience to campaigning. It was refreshing to see their enthusiasm.

At the entrance to the school gate, there were both male and female representatives from the Ministry of Interior checking on the women who went in. They were primarily checking for ID which in this case was the small black rectangular nationality ID the Jinsiyah. Instructions were given on where to go and as I proceeded, I was interested to see that it was not too crowded. I wondered if that was just because of the time (3:30 pm) or if it was true that not many people were going to vote as rumoured.

Ahead of me was a young Kuwaiti woman assisting an elderly woman who could barely walk and who seemed to be complaining in a low voice to her assistant. The younger woman was smiling and kept repeating to her: “Never mind, it’s for your son, Auntie.” I wondered if her son was one of the candidates.

At one door, I was asked for my registration number and told which room to go into. I was most surprised when I was asked to leave my handbag on the chair at the door and to enter the room directly to cast my ballot. That was strange because in previous years we had been given numbers and had always waited a long time for our turn as we sat in classrooms or  in  queues. This time, I walked straight in, handed the judge my Jinsyah; they read my full name out, and gave me the ballot. I went straight to one of three podiums, and there ticked off the names of the chosen candidates.

At the table, there was the clear ballot box and I cast my folded paper into it. My Jinsyah was stamped and handed back. There were three people at the table: two women representatives and one male judge who I believe was Egyptian. On one side of the room were two rows of women seated as independent supervisors of the voting process.

I was literally in and out in minutes and could hardly believe it.

Perhaps I did not feel as euphoric as I did in the past two elections but I did feel a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. It felt right.

There was some malaise May 19, 2009

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At home, enjoying my siesta:

I had just flown back to Kuwait on the morning of May 16th and was taking an afternoon siesta when my mobile phone rang. A bubbly voice on the other end greeted me with much enthusiasm and after the usual greetings, she asked me: “Ha, you came back in time just for the elections! How patriotic!”

I laughed. “Oh yes, I am patriotic. I had to be back in time to cast my vote.”

She said: “Of course, I know you are! I bet you went straight from the airport to the polling station and cast your ballot.”

I laughed again, stretching my body lazily as I lay there in bed: “No! Not quite! Have you?”

The enthusiasm in her voice was infectious: “Of course I voted! I was there at 9:30 this morning. And when I came home, I ran into my grandmother who insisted she wanted to go! ” And she told me who she voted for: 3 men and a woman.

After our conversation, I lay there for a while thinking of whether or not it would be excusable not to cast my ballot this time. Although I had followed the campaign news from afar whilst in London, I did not feel the campaign fever as in previous years and around me there was a general feeling of malaise about the elections and the thought of spending hours to cast my vote in the heat was making me think twice about going. From some people I heard what is the use of going to the trouble of voting when parliament may just be dissolved again? From others, I heard of the Kuwaitis who were not going to vote at all: “What is the use?”

We discussed the matter briefly at home and each one of us encouraged the other. We would go together and vote. Useful or not, I wanted to practice my right: the right that women had only been granted in 2005. I remembered how I had lectured my American friend many years ago when she refused to vote citing the very same reasons: What’s the use? I remembered her this year when Obama won the presidential elections and wondered if at last, she had voted.

We drove to the school where the female polling station was and he went off to vote in another station where the men were voting.

Kuwaiti Elections 2009 May 17, 2009

Posted by jewaira in Kuwait, News, Women.
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Photos from the Kuwaiti parliamentary elections  that took place on May 16, 2009. News sites accessed 17/5/09.
Source: Al-Rai Kuwaiti daily news; online version.

Al Aan Online news site Al-Qabas Kuwaiti Daily news online version

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Women are very active in getting campaigns going and organized. Here they are doing the driving of the golf carts - possibly used to facilitate the transport of voters

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Women voting on May 16, 2009

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The man is the judge presiding over each voting station. There are usually two women assistants on either side who check identification and voting details

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Male candidates rely heavily on female supporters and campaign members to promote them

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3rd time around for women voting, the procedure has become much more streamlined and organized. Everyone is eager to assist during the voting process

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Nothing will keep us away now.

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When you go in to vote, you hand over your Jensiya (proof of citizenship- little black booklet) and a woman checks it and reads the name out loud sometimes twice. The judge on her left reads it and checks his list as well and they mark off the name. You have to know your voter registration number. The box is where you cast the ballot

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We usually vote in government school buildings. Outside the school walls there are always people gathered. Here a woman holds an umbrella with the name of two of the candidates across the black material

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Female supporters and campaign volunteers are out in full force outside the voting stations

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Maassouma Mubarak pays a visit to one of the polling stations in her constituency. She retained the number one winning position in her constituency all through the polls

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One of the candidates taking a photo with employees at the polling station

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Aseel Al-Awadhi winner in the third voting constituency surrounded by her campaign aids and volunteers

Last but not least, the female lawyer that almost made it but not quite in her constituency: Thikrah Al-Rasheedi. Hopefully next time.

Last but not least, the female lawyer that almost made it but not quite in her constituency: Thikrah Al-Rasheedi. Hopefully next time. Out of 35 candidates in the 4th constituency, she came in at number 15, getting a total of 6635 votes in a male dominated tribal area.

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Kuwaiti women voting

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Two supporters of a male candidate Hisham Al-Baghli

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These elections saw the first official presence of the new female Kuwaiti police force

Voters and campaign volunteers outside polling stations

Voters and campaign volunteers outside polling stations

New Kuwaiti policewomen pose for the camera

New Kuwaiti policewomen pose for the camera

Four Kuwaiti Women elected to Parliament May 17, 2009

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Finally, four women make it into the Kuwaiti parliament:
1.  Maasouma Mubarak, PhD
Congratulations Kuwait.
Moubarak

1st constituency winner: Maasouma Al-Mubarak (14,247 votes). Al-Mubarak, now the third woman to be elected into parliament, holds a PhD in the philosophy of international relations from Denver University, Colorado. She also holds a masters degree in international relations, and another in political sciences. She holds a diploma in planning and a bachelors in political sciences. She is a lecturer at Kuwait University and a visiting professor at Denver University (1986-1988), and the University of Bahrain (1990-1991). She became Kuwait's first female minister when she was appointed Minister of Planning and State Minister for Administrative Development Affairs in 2005. She was appointed Minister of Communications in 2006 and Minister of Health in 2007. SOURCE: http://www.kuna.net.kw/NewsAgenciesPublicSite/ArticleDetails.aspx?id=1998761&Language=en

3rd Constituency winner: Aseel Al-Awadhi with 11,860 votes. Dr. Aseel Al-Awadhi, who came second, holds a PhD in political philosophy from Texas University and a bachelors degree with a minor in political sciences from Kuwait University. She was a member of Amnesty International in 1988-1991, a volunteer at the Kuwaiti Society for Victims of War in 1991-1993. She has been lecturer at Kuwait University's Arts College since 2006. SOURCE: http://www.kuna.net.kw/NewsAgenciesPublicSite/ArticleDetails.aspx?id=1998754&Language=en

3rd Constituency winner: Aseel Al-Awadhi with 11,860 votes. Dr. Aseel Al-Awadhi, who came second, holds a PhD in political philosophy from Texas University and a bachelors degree with a minor in political sciences from Kuwait University. She was a member of Amnesty International in 1988-1991, a volunteer at the Kuwaiti Society for Victims of War in 1991-1993. She has been lecturer at Kuwait University's Arts College since 2006. SOURCE: http://www.kuna.net.kw/NewsAgenciesPublicSite/ArticleDetails.aspx?id=1998754&Language=en

3rd Constituency:Rola Dashti, PhD with 7,666 votes. Rola Dashti, the second women winning parliamentary elections, holds a PhD in population economy from John Hopkins University in the US. She held a number of consultative positions in companies and is Chairperson of Kuwait Economists Society. SOURCE: http://www.kuna.net.kw/NewsAgenciesPublicSite/ArticleDetails.aspx?id=1998754&Language=en

3rd Constituency winner: Rola Dashti, PhD with 7,666 votes. Rola Dashti, the second women winning parliamentary elections, holds a PhD in population economy from John Hopkins University in the US. She held a number of consultative positions in companies and is Chairperson of Kuwait Economists Society. SOURCE: http://www.kuna.net.kw/NewsAgenciesPublicSite/ArticleDetails.aspx?id=1998754&Language=en

2nd Constituency: Salwa Al-Jassar, PhD.  (4,776 votes). Associate Professor-Faculty of Education. Doctoral degree 1991 from University of Pittsburgh. SOURCE: http://www.saljassar.com/per_profile.php

2nd Constituency winner: Salwa Al-Jassar, PhD. (4,776 votes). Associate Professor-Faculty of Education. Doctoral degree 1991 from University of Pittsburgh. SOURCE: http://www.saljassar.com/per_profile.php

Prisoner of Colors May 13, 2009

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The poignant words below are by Delara Darabi, a gifted artist, arrested at the age of 17 and imprisoned for a murder she maintained she had not committed. After six years in jail, she was executed by hanging on May 1, 2009:

“Do you know what a prisoner of colors means?

It means Del Ara,

I, whom from the age of 4 had my life divided by colors,

At the onset of my 17th birthday lost them.

I depicted grimy red as cobalt blue…

And in place of the skies I spread gray.

I lost the colors.

And now a wall is the only image by my side which each day unfolds its sigh.

From behind the walls, to you who have come to view the paintings, I say hello and welcome.”

Link: Amnesty International blogs

wayward wind May 12, 2009

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The wind

howls

through

sturdy panes.

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Young Spring leaves

flutter

in trepidation.

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My heart

skittles

down

the dimly lit alley

==

a wayward

paper bag.

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Lamp Light May 8, 2009

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Dark street

Cold night

White light

Street lamp

Solitary man

Belting out

Persian song,

Rugged,

Alone,

riding his bicycle

down shadowed

pavement

of my English

street.

And I watch from my window

only,

never having the courage

to ride a bicycle

down the pavement

in London

during a Scorpio Moon

belting out traditional songs

in my native tongue

to an audience of

watchers

behind the tulled windows

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Give us a kiss May 8, 2009

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I sat in the cab looking out the window. As it made its slow way down the congested street, my eyes settled on a couple in front of a shop window. The woman had a short blond bob and the man had a darker complexion. What happened next was amusing. He turned around and smooched her so forcefully that at my safe distance behind the glass I could almost feel the resistance the poor woman put up. He literally started to eat her mouth. At first she kissed back dutifully but it went on for ages and she looked like she had had enough so her mouth stopped moving.

When he finally plucked his lips away from her with a satisfied expression that seemed to say “There! That’ll show you!”, I could almost hear his “Aah, that was good, babeh!”And he turned around to walk on.

Ugh! The woman rubbed her lips and had a disgusted expression on her face as she followed him.

I remembered that kiss when I watched this one clip of the Vicar of Dibley. Owen says he has never kissed a woman and so the Vicar offers to let him kiss her.Of course she did not realize what he intended and he literally sucked her filling out. Ewww!

Ah the art of kissing. It should make a woman flip!

Protected: Oh, don’t judge! May 7, 2009

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Past Perfect May 6, 2009

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I wanted to tell you about my lover. Well, he was my past lover you see. Not in the present tense. He was not past perfect either.

He used to be a past perfect continuous kind of lover, with me not being able to forget him. He then dwindled into a past perfect only memory, and I pined for him for days on end.

Now though, I feel perfect thinking about the demise of our relationship in the future perfect tense.

I should always think about such matters of the heart using the basics of grammar governing the English language. Relationships would certainly be more gratifying.

one word poetry May 3, 2009

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rancid.

(one word poetry that may elicit an emotional reaction or a mental one depending on the person and the bank of memories stored within the brain and the level of sensitivity within the soul)

evoke.

detonate.

explosive love

in microscopic chips

sail through

Cyberalia.

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Oh yes, I turned the fan on May 3, 2009

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wretched bleak ways.

you only turn the page

with eagerness

and find

a black hole

that sucks you into

infinity.

Altruisms May 3, 2009

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It is May already.

And still

you have not wandered

into the

valley of flowers.

Where can I find a field suitable

for us to meet

and embrace

through eyes

that have not seen the dark?

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There were three people waiting on a bench.

One of them got up to go to the restroom.

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I wanted only to be infinite

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Separate entities.

One entry.

A multitude of reasons.

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tweet, tweedily dee May 1, 2009

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song: Rockin’ Robin / Jackson 5

Is there any hope for Kuwaiti twitter community KuWeet?

Why do we want to know when you ate? What you ate? Or where you ate? Why do we have to know minute by minute what you are doing.

Twitter fans, if I am wrong in my disdain for this microblogging phenomenon that has been sweeping the Internet, please convince me why it is such a great thing and how can it be useful.

Love is in the Air May 1, 2009

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The weather in April has been fantastic here in London. I’m sure those living in London are more than pleased at the long dry spells and the amount of sunshine.

You can tell spring is in the air. What else would explain the couple having Sex on the Queen’s Lawn at Windsor Castle?

More than the lewd act of public sex,  I find British journalism, and humour to be most amusing as can be seen in the Sun’s coverage: “Who’s Giving One One on One’s Lawn?” It’s hilarious. I’ve been looking for videos of the scene since it went on for a good twenty minutes and according to the article, “….. Several Japanese tourists FILMED the session, giving running commentaries to their instant “blue” videos”  and after it was all over, comparing their videos.

Ah, such fun.

Since we are on the topic, we’ll do a poll shall we?

I can predict the answers already.

Where were we? We were discussing the weather. The taxi driver said he hoped it would be nice and sunny since it was a Bank Holiday weekend coming up. He chatted with me on the drive home and said he was a retired driver who only worked a couple of days a week now. He liked to get out of the house and to earn some extra money for a little vacation.

When this man knew I was from Kuwait, he asked the  inevitable question. How is it in Kuwait now after the invasion and the oil fires?

I laughed when he implied it was about 10 years ago. I said it’s been 18 years.

Blimey, he exclaimed. Yes, I replied. “The years whizz by don’t they?”

I didn’t bother to touch on any of the cultural and social residues that a war leaves behind. Better leave those untouched.