When I saw this article: Women get massages with ‘happy endings’ too two things came to mind.
First, I remembered the time one acquaintance was aghast that the female therapist in the massage salon in Jabriya had offered to make her feel like she has never felt before (sexually that is) and openly admired her body. My acquaintance never went back despite having paid for a course of massages.
Second, I remembered the only amusing part of the film Don’t Mess with the Zohan. Zohan, the hairdresser, takes to pleasuring the female clientele as part of the hairstyling appointment. The sexual encounter is represented by loud noises coming from behind the rocking salon walls, and items falling off the shelves as the other hairdressers go on with their work.
Back to the linked article. Massages can be intimate but gratifying encounters that border precariously on the sexual if one does not maintain a certain restraint. I wonder if “happy endings” are indeed the unspoken new trend.
intlxpatr said:
The very thought makes me uncomfortable about going for massages. It’s creepy.
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In order for a massage to be effective, one has to feel completely secure with the therapist. I suppose with such treatments, the potential for abuse is very real which is why it is important to seek reputable treatment centres and also to speak out when something feels uncomfortable.
Jewaira
MiYaFuSHi said:
The exact same thing as your friend happened to me, except it was in a mall in Hawally, and the ‘therapist’ kinda just went for it! without even the asking part. I bolted outta there and let my course of massages go to waste.
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Those kinds of treatment centres that offer unwanted services should be exposed. This is to prevent further abuse of unsuspecting clients and also to safeguard the reputation of those dedicated treatment centres.
I’m guessing it is one of the massage places in Al-Mohallab Mall.
Jewaira
Fons Moonen said:
It is the “story”of my life, working for a happy ending
{lol-lol}
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Good one Fons
Jewaira
Marzouq said:
hahaha! It seems that what men have been doing for centuries women are now openly catching on to! Its a preference, I don’t like it but some people do and its the same with women..
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So men have been doing that for centuries?
For some, massages are synonymous with sexual gratification but there are so many different kinds of massages that one should not group them together.
It is very interesting that some women are seeking sexual gratification from massage therapy but ina covert fashion. How long has this been going on?
J
ms. baker said:
Miyafushi -
I think I know the one you are talking about. That place – and the “therapist” have been one that many of the women who were victims (same thing happened to them or worse even) have been warning each other about discreetly and even openly… It has become well known in “underground” circles… I am sorry it happened to you, it was disgusting that you had to endure that during a massage therapy treatment by a “therapist”. I know of a woman whose psychotherapist actually sexually molested her while she was in his office and then tried to convince her it was because she wanted him to and it was her fault.
There are many so-called professionals in both private businesses and government sectors here in Kuwait who are preying on and sexually abusing/molesting clients or patients. These sick individuals are often brazen about it and able to evade punitive or legal action because they are able to take cover under their “wasta” and their well placed and planned disguises of social respectability, and because the health care system in general is badly broken and operating without real regulation or regard for whatever protocol or law is supposed to be in place to protect patients and their rights. Most importantly, these abusers and predators live in full confidence that their victims will be unable to do anything out of abject fear, shock and shame. And most of the time, tragically enough, they are right.
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I wonder in what way these “therapists” – who are actually abusing their professional status – can be exposed?
How can one find out about who they are? And places to avoid?
Rather than being underground, they should be exposed regardless of who they are.
Jewaira
Phantom Man said:
Jewaira, I have had a massage only one time, and I can tell you that I can understand how a man or woman would become aroused by it (although it was very professional, in my case).
I actually like the idea that either a man or woman might be able to get a massage with a “happy ending” if that is what they want.
In the U.S., we have “massage parlors”, where men can go, but they are constantly being raided by the police. I think it is sad that adults do not have the freedom to perform and receive these services openly. I hope the situation is changing, at least in some parts of the world.
Freedom is a good thing, and we can only hope that some day, people will stop controlling others and let them be.
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PhantomMan
Yes I understand your point of view especially if it is consensual.
There is such a fine line in this intimate line of therapy.
I heard a story of a therapist once here in Kuwait who was aghast when her client demanded a sexual favour (and apparently it happens all the time not only with men but also women clients)
So even the therapists are sometimes at risk from client’s behaviour.
If it is consensual, then there is no problem.
We just don’t want to promote abuse.
Jewaira
Imran said:
Hmm
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It appeals to you.
Pregnant wives love massages too.
Jewaira
Ms. Baker said:
Phantom Man –
No offense, but you are talking about legalized sexual services and prostitution. I’m no prude, but I think mixing that idea up with massage THERAPY – a subset of PHYSICAL THERAPY which is a form of MEDICAL treatment, is fundamentally wrong and highly objectionable.
Legalize prostitution if you want or advocate the availability of red light districts if you so choose, but do not let the lines be so terribly crossed in what is supposed to be a therapeutic kind of physical treatment performed by trained health professionals.
Just my passionate personal opinion.
HaMooR said:
Lady J,
girls like the happy ending.. even if they deny it. most of them… girls get so aroused and wet when they get massage.. a real one.
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How do you know?
Jewaira
michael said:
Hi, i love reading your post often. Anyway, yes I am a therapist and photographer and used to do alot of traveling.
Every country i visit i get a massage because all countries have the own cultural style and techniques. Massage is everywhere in the world and in most Asian, European and South American countries they massage with happy endings. Which are very common. In fact most massage schools in those countries teach massage for the genitals region usually because relaxation and medical reasons.
When I was in South America I took a course. The logic is you are not totally relaxed body and mind if you don’t get fully released. There tension there too. Usually men full release massages so its very common, but nowadays women are getting them to and are also asking for full release massages.
Mostly when a client comes into the office or parlor usually the therapist ask what kind of massage do they want. Deep, Tissue, swedish and also if they want a full release with that. Sometime the therapist will ask toward the end of the massage. A simple yes or know will usually suffice because the therapist doesn’t want to jeapordize getting a tip.
Early in US history during the Victorian Era Doctors usually perform clit massages to bring about orgasm to help with depression, insomnia, stress etc. Then later they passed that on to massage technicians because the time it took for a doctor to bring her to full release he could have saw 3 or 4 patient. So he lost money doing it.
Anyway, it’s very common and people are more relaxed and content. Plus they are experts and get it done quick. Sometimes better than being with someone who doesn’t fulfill you or doesn’t know what to do. Especially if your single.
ok, that’s all i have to say for now..
keep up the good work.
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Hi Michael
Thank you for sharing your point of view on this subject. I guess it all depends on a person’s expectations.
Jewaira
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His Sweetheart said:
Ewww
I have heard alot about it!! I was shocked for real
About “the Zohan”, I just hated it!!
A very stupid movie and what made it worse is what the Zohan was doing at the back of the saloon!! Disgusting old ladies!!
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Hahaha
Huh? Disgusting old ladies ? Lol what about Zohan? He was weird doing all those “massages”
Jewaira
Robert said:
For the women that want and get “happy endings” – good for you! Life is too short to inhibit yourself to meet other people’s standards for how you should behave. Sexuality should be a private matter.
My wife frequents spas and in most cases, she doesn’t get the “happy ending” but usually finds the experience arrousing. However, if she and the MT mutually decide a “happy ending” works for them; I encourage her to do so. As she describes it, it isn’t discussed, but rather a natural response to two people’s interactions.
If I’m fine with it, my wife is fine with it, and the MT is fine with it, why should anyone else care?
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What a good husband you are Robert!
Jewaira
purpleram said:
‘happy endings’ – how come stuff like this never happens to me! sob.
eyezwider said:
But where would you go if you would like a Happy Ending but in a pleasant not-too-seedy place? Where does your wife go Robert! And how can you ask without being too direct?
Robert said:
This is Robert from post 13 above. Believe it or not, she has gotten happy endings at top nyc spas. It happened with one particular MT after a few visits. She had happy endings in a high end spa with a MT she really, really liked and eventually, we were able to get him to massage her off-premise. I rented a nearby hotel suite and he came over for a massage and they were finally able to really let loose…it was obvious there was something mutually exciting going on between them and they were able to pleasure each other.
My wife is considerably younger than me and this is a perfectly acceptable arrangement for us.
Reply to # 15; she hasn’t asked for happy endings –> it sort of happens with body movement, subtle encouragement, etc.
if you want to know, I am more than willing to share our stories. It has opened a door to a very intensified, passionate sex life for us and I encourage it a great deal.
reach me at icantoday@yahoo.com
Robert
jewaira said:
thanks, Robert
FUZZYBEAR said:
lmao can’t wait for robert to vent about how his wife wants a divorce and to be with that MT.
jewaira said:
I think that is quite generous of Robert and men of his calibre to want their partners to experience physical pleasures
FUZZYBEAR said:
Swingers are amongst the epitome of human immorality/filth and there is nothing praise worthy of ‘men’ such as robert.
My 2 fils.
jewaira said:
You mean 5 fils.
To each his own as long as they are consenting, clear thinking adults aware of all risks involved.
lebnene me7tar said:
where are places with happy endings in kuwait
anybody can give name of places and numbers
thankx
jewaira said:
yes
we would all like to know
Jesus said:
Don’t you think it’s a bit of an exaggeration to use the words “abuse” and “victims”? I mean the women weren’t restrained or forced to accept, were they? I understand that these acts may be disgusting or disturbing to some people, but they’re not as extreme as mugging or child molesting, for example.
Would a man be called a “victim” if he were to receive the same offer?
Btw, reading this reminds me of a Borat scene where he asks for release from the male massage therapist. I spent an eternity laughing when I saw it
jewaira said:
I would really like to hear from someone who has enjoyed a happy ending, Jesus and tell us about it
sama said:
i am a woman living in Kuwait i got the happy ending massage once in my life but outside kuwiat i am dieing to find it again
it is amazinggggggggggggggggg can any one advice or send me on private
samafrank94@yahoo.com
Zeina Rifai said:
Well! I had 5 happy endings so far and hell it’s amazing!!! especially when it comes to Thai Ladies, they know what to do i’m telling you
jewaira said:
Love to hear about it