Happy National Day February 25, 2007
Posted by jewaira in Kuwait, Special Occasions.17 comments
Driving over 4th ring road bridge, I see a cluster of bright yellow nuwwair spring flowers pushing through the concrete slab sides.
This is you.
Full of beauty and perseverence.
You are seemingly dry, arid…
but to me, your land is rich and bountiful.
They all flock to leave you…
But I am here, overflowing with love for you.
Kuwaiti Blogging Phenomenon February 21, 2007
Posted by jewaira in Announcements, Blogging, Kuwait.30 comments
I just saw two photos on my sidebar posted by veteran Bahraini blogger Mahmoud Al-Yousif. He participated in a Kuwaiti television show on Kuwaiti bloggers. I quote him:
” I was invited to participate in the “Diwaniyyat Al-Osbou” which is presented by Dr. Shafiq Al-Ghabra on Kuwait TV Channel 1 in an episode about the blogging phenomenon in Kuwait specifically and the Gulf in general. The episode should air in April 2007. “
Diwaniyyat Al-Osbou – Kuwait Photo 1
Diwaniyyat Al-Osbou – Kuwait Photo 2
I’m looking forward to the show and to seeing those wonderful bloggers. I recognize a couple of good looking gentleman and the beautiful lady.
Hmmm I wonder if Dr. Shafeeq has a blog?
Marina Morning February 20, 2007
Posted by jewaira in Kuwait, Life.25 comments
Today the weather was just too beautiful to stay indoors. We decided to go to Marina Crescent to have a late breakfast at Le Pain Quotidien. It was quiet and relaxed but I did notice that there were many persons who looked like youngish students? Were these little ones all starting their holiday early as predicted? Or had they “absconded” from school?
We took a stroll down by the waterfront and it was gorgeous. The sky was a bright clear blue, the tide was in and the sea was an intense vibrant blue.
We sat on the bench and I did what I love the most: people watching.
On the bench on our left were two older abaya-clad Kuwaiti women sitting quietly with their Indonesian maid out to enjoy the day. In front of us passed an older man in a navy suit. He may have been Lebanese or Syrian. He was stocky and his gray hair was worn away into a shiny sun-kissed bald spot. He seemed instantly invigorated by the sight of the sea and with his black dress shoes went walking on the sand down to the beach where he stood looking out at the water, one hand in his right pocket, the left hand on his ample waist under the suit jacket. He walked up and down the beach close to the water. I don’t know why but I kept thinking of his dress shoes.
Over to the left side of the beach there was a young girl with long light brown hair. She looked foreign. She wore brown pants and a floral pink top over a dark long sleeved “bodysuit”. She was being twirled and danced by a taller guy in a black suit. From a distance we thought she was a child. The young man twirled her around in a happy dance down by the sea. They laughed in the carefree manner of youth and as she finished her last twirl she grasped his hand and they continued their happy walk down the beach.
Directly in front of us on the beach, there was a western couple with their little daughter who was very busy playing in the sand. The woman stood in her greenish caftan and proceeded to slip into her bikini. This was going to be interesting. Her husband sat with his back towards her, still in Bermudas and polo shirt, his face obscured by a sun hat. The woman slipped into her bikini bottom and then as she pulled it up, very adroitly wrapped a sarong around her, at the same time taking off what remained of the green caftan. How she managed to put on her bikini top I don’t know because at that moment the whole Al-Arabi tae-kwando men’s team walked by coming from Marina Waves. They were jovial and laughing as they passed. By the time they had, the western woman was standing in her turquoise bikini and making herself comfortable for a sunbathing session or some “bronzage” as the Lebanese would say.
One of the Tae Kwando team members had a camera with a huge lens on it and was taking photos. As far as I know, he didn’t take photos of the bikini clad westerner but pointed his camera in the opposite direction to photograph his teammate who was standing by a group of young Kuwaiti mothers with toddlers. They looked like they were just baby sitting and not mothers.
The young dancing couple were now sitting on a bench farther away from us but they were oblivious to the world around them. Soon they got up and when they passed in front of us I pondered her age; she couldn’t have been more than sixteen. Why was he wearing a black suit and white shirt? It made him look older than his face said he was. They bought some popcorn and went back down to the beach to eat and play. [I was disappointed with you, young man; as you left, you placed your empty popcorn carton on the concrete slab although the rubbish bin was less than a meter away ; and I don’t care if it was half full; there’s no excuse to be a litter bug]
A group of four Indian teens came rushing by in their school clothes and backpacks: two girls and two boys. They walked down to the beach and started to play.
Everyone is drawn to the sea.
A tall middle aged westerner came past and walked down to the beach and positioned himself about 5 meters away from the other western couple. He took off his shirt to reveal a tanned torso, and lay down on the sand to sunbathe. The husband of the turquoise bikini clad woman soon got up and removed his shorts and shirt. I guess by now he was warmed up enough to want to remove his clothes and get a suntan. I wondered if these people lived nearby.
A young Kuwaiti couple was walking hand in hand down the pavement and suddenly he took a handful of her hair and started to twist it, pulling her head down slightly in the process. Was it abuse? I looked more closely. Hmm…No, he was exerting his power over her and she loved it. They resumed holding hands.
We went walking to Marina Waves where there is the Kuwait Climbing Centre. It is a strange building. In the middle is the climbing wall. Next to it are two small shops as I remember: one for Sea & Desert and the other Extreme Sports equipment.
Some children were climbing the wall. In the corner, in Blenz Coffee, small groups of elegant middle aged Kuwaiti women sat having heavy duty gossip sessions and not wasting an opportunity to look us over as we passed, their gaze obscured by large dark designer sunglasses.
We walked around the building and it struck me as full of interesting nooks and crannies to grab a quick smooch with your girlfriend. As we turned the corner, four truant teens, looked up guiltily. The girls were perched on the short wall and the guys stood by entertaining them. They busied themselves with their iPods as we passed.
An American walked arm in arm with his blonde Filipina companion. They looked like us, checking out the place. The view from the upper balcony is splendid and you can see the whole of Kuwait City bay area. Looking back towards the beach, a large striped shade umbrella flies away and woman in a scarf and pale manteau runs after it.
As we left Marina Waves, the delivery truck for Maki Japanese restaurant was in the driveway. A black Mercedes pulled up next to it and an elegant Kuwaiti woman wearing a yellow jacket belted at the waist disembarked nimbly. She quickly donned her sunglasses and sped down the ramp, no doubt to join the other ladies at Blenz Coffee. It was only after we were half way back to the car, and by now sweltering in the growing heat, that I remembered the elegant lady was my dentist.
Your Lamb February 20, 2007
Posted by jewaira in Poetry.21 comments
you wanted me
always to be your lamb
to follow you
everywhere
but you didn’t think
that some lambs
grew up
into stubborn ewes
who would stray
away from the
mindless
herd
someday
New Links February 19, 2007
Posted by jewaira in Blogging, Film & Ads, Humour, Internet, Links, News.7 comments
OK.. I must balance my previous semi-erotic post with an informative one so here are some interesting links to keep bookmarked:
Darabet is an Arabic site similar to Digg
Just like IKBIS is similar to YouTube.
And this is an amusing link that many people may have already seen but still it is a fun way to play and make people say things you wouldn’t be able to do in real life if you know what I mean.
Thank you to special people for sharing special links with me
Protected: Remove Your Mask February 19, 2007
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For My Valentine February 14, 2007
Posted by jewaira in Music, Relationships, Special Occasions.22 comments
For my sweetheart…… this song has special memories of you:
(The Divinyls – I touch myself)
I thought of writing something spicy on the occasion of Valentine’s Day but my fingers just don’t fit into the groove these days.
So I will share a link with you disgruntled men and women so you will not feel you’ve missed something on this day of celebrating Eros.
True Wife Confessions will scar(e) you for life. Just take it with a grain of salt or a big slab of dark chocolate.
Marriage: Thoughts & Expectations February 12, 2007
Posted by jewaira in Dear Jewaira, Relationships.36 comments
Dear Jewaira,
I am the American woman who posted on your site about marrying a Bedoun from Kuwait.
We have decided to get married but of course his parents will not know.
We have been together for about a year. I completely understand what a Bedoun is, and I have no problem with this. We see each other almost every day and we’re very happy together.
I don’t believe he wants to marry me for a passport, money, etc. because we have only recently started talking about getting married. We do plan to marry as soon as we can get his Visa. We did all of the required paperwork but expect it will take a few months.
Though we are both Muslim, he was born and raised in Islam. I only converted from my own religion about 8 months ago. We respect each other very much and we truly do love one another. But I am from a very large city in the United States, he is from the deserts of Kuwait. I am used to big buildings, businesses, and a fast paced life. He is used to the desert, tents, and camels. Because he’s Bedoun he has never been allowed to hold a job, travel, or know anything of other cultures other than through movies and television, however he speakes English beautifully.
But we seem to overcome this. We take the time to learn of each other’s life and we have come to love the differences we share. He is taking the time to teach me Arabic. We share a great deal of love, but I am very familiar with the Kuwaiti culture. And I know him marrying me is absolutely against anything he is expected to do. When I have asked why he wants to marry me, he explains that sometimes love is stronger than what we’re taught to believe.
What should I expect? What should I think? We are both Muslim and have a great respect for one another.
In London February 11, 2007
Posted by jewaira in Life, Thoughts & Feelings.19 comments
My London posts have all been a series of reflections on life in this multicultural and vibrant city and some of the changes that I have noticed.
In the poem Fat Pigeon, I contemplate the energy of Londoners who brave the elements and go for their early morning jog before commencing on their commute to work. To me, the commitment of the early morning jogger to a scheduled routine reflects excellent time management skills as well as a keen attitude towards physical and mental health.
In the Equus post, I mentioned Daniel Radcliffe in his new role on stage where he will perfom nude (as I understood). This was interesting because in the brochure for this season’s Barbican, I noticed that were some performances that contained partial or full nudity in repertoires that could hardly be considered pornography. [For example, these performances here and here] Would a repertoire by nude actors focus the attention of the audience on their naked physique instead of the artistic performance? What statement is being made by the nude performer: a shock tactic, or is it a stripping of all barriers between actor and theatre-goers?
In the Free Papers post, I drew attention to a prevalent new phenomenon on the streets of London especially noticeable since September 2006. I remember the Evening Standard vendors on the streets in the late afternoons. Now the vendors are still there but one can’t help but wonder who would buy the Evening Standard when there are purple clad distributors asking you, almost forcing you, to take their newspaper for free. Of course there is lots being said about these free papers but the point is we are now witnessing key changes in the way news is being delivered. When Anna Nicole Smith died a few days ago, and a celebrity magazine got hold of the news, they couldn’t hold off publishing the breaking news for a week so opted to post it on their online web site.
The Internet is definitely changing the way we receive and distribute news. Will free distribution be the only way to save newspapers from inevitable “demise” and “extinction”?
In the Pigeons Revisited post, I mentioned the use of Harris’ hawks in urban bird management in London. For some years now many buildings have installed thick iron spikes along all building surfaces where pigeons may roost. These spikes look unsightly but serve to deter pigeons from roosting where they are unwanted.
Now there is an increase in the use of hawks to control pigeon populations, supposedly not to kill them but to keep them away from marked territories. How many of us have had our photos taken feeding the pigeons at Trafalgar Square? Will this now be a thing of the past?
Another interesting phenomenon in London is the increase in the number of cyclists. Riding home in a taxi during commuter rush hour, the number of cyclists was noticeable to me. In addition, there are advertisements for a folding bicycle that can be put in a bag and kept in the office. This trend was first made noticeable in the aftermath of the London underground and bus bombings in 2005 when cycle sales boomed. Other reasons for this trend could be environmental concerns as well as an avoidance of the dreaded congestion charge that must be paid to enter London by car commuters.
I generally avoid crowds but sometimes they are inevitable. I noticed that although it was winter and much less congested than at summer, people walking down the strees in Central London were sometimes quite aggressive and would deliberately slam into me or my companion as they hurried by without so much as an apology. I bumped into an older man’s bouquet of flowers as I rushed to catch the bus one evening, but I made a point of returninng and apologizing for my clumsiness. If anything, it makes me feel better to apologize even though it was unintentional. Of course apologizing for every brush up against someone is an unreasonable thought; I am referring to head on “push you out of my path” behaviour that is inexcusable.
On a final sartorial note, I couldn’t help but wonder when I saw all the tunic tops in the high street shops that something borrowed from the muhajjabat style of dressing. Where was it that I saw the term muhajababes?
Something else that amused me: the number of men and women all wearing the same striped (Missoni?) scarf wrapped around their necks. It is attractive but too much of something certainly wears out its novelty.
Now of course I am back home in Kuwait after a wonderful trip.
Glass Menagerie February 11, 2007
Posted by jewaira in London, Poetry.6 comments
Sitting
On bar stools in Costa café
Eating
Our sandwiches and
Sipping our drinks;
Facing
The large glass windows as we chew
And look out absent mindedly…..
Passersby on the sidewalk
look at us
behind the glass window pane
Like we are animals on display in a zoo.
Pigeons Revisited February 11, 2007
Posted by jewaira in Animals, Life, London.7 comments
My first London post was titled Fat Pigeon.
Following that day, I had many pigeon related encounters.
It interested me to see an increase in pigeon deterrents on many buildings: rows upon rows of thin sharp spikes that line ledges, windowsills, and beams to deter pigeons from roosting on them. Even the Ann Summers shop sign on Oxford Street is bedecked with these spikes.
Recently, I read about the use of Harris’ hawks in urban bird management in Time Out magazine (p.8, January 24-30, 2007). Hawkman David Bishop uses his Harris’ hawk, Emu, to deter pigeons from certain areas around London. Harris Hawks may sometimes kill pigeons but mainly they are used as deterrents to mark the areas as the hawk’s territory to drive the unwanted birds elsewhere.
There were days when it was considered a “touristy” thing to do to feed the pigeons in Trafalgar Square. Now, you see these signs and you see these birds instead.
Freepapers February 10, 2007
Posted by jewaira in Life, Links, London, News, Opinion.1 comment so far
On both my recent visits to London, I have noticed the free sheets or free papers that are distributed or rather thrust at you as you walk down the streets during the late afternoon or early evenings.
During my visit last fall, I would refuse the offer of the free paper as just more junk. Anything that was free has to have an agenda. There is nothing free really so I pondered the reason for the aggressive distribution.
During this visit, I noticed there were more distributors on the street handing out the Londonpaper and London Lite to people walking by. If you see the Flickr photostream on the right, you can see what I mean.
In this blog post, the London Free For All, there is a short review of the free London paper. People read them on the commute back home and then discard them. In September, the BBC site questioned whether In Future Will All Newspapers Be Free?
On many days that I picked both copies up, I noticed similarity in news items.
Although many of the distributors practically shove the papers in your face, they are also quite appreciative when you do take a copy and very politely say Thank You. I admit it makes me suspicious. Do they have a distribution quota?
Many papers litter the London sidewalks and bins are often full of them. Although I enjoy some snippets on these free papers, I admit I do find the street distributors annoying no matter how polite they are.
This is a photo of a Snow Model in Regent’s Park on the online version of the Londonpaper. Yes, it did snow on Thursday and it was absolutely beautiful!!
For My Arabian Valentine February 5, 2007
Posted by jewaira in Fun & Games, Love, Special Occasions.30 comments
Want to discover unusual and romantic spots for us in Kuwait to spend a special love weekend? What about something like this?
Arabian Nights Desert Love Special….wrap her up with you in your bisht or farwa and sit in front of the duwwah, under the stars and make love to her till the sun rises in the eastern sky.
Be her 3Antar and she will be your 3Ablah…and realize the unrequited love…recite love poems to each other (ample reading materials provided) and immerse yourselves into the world of Arab passion.
Worried about toilet facilities? Luxury bathrooms with hot and cold running water. Open air hot tubs provided for languid soak-ins with your lover under the stars.
Sumptuous home cooked traditional meals can be delivered to your camp on prearrangement or if you prefer to have your own barbecue, we can deliver all the essentials to make it a special occasion for you.
Enjoy desert rides on our beautiful Arabian horses or camels under the guidance of our discreet grooms. No experience necessary and we will guarantee you will want to come…….over and over again.
Enjoy the solitude and carefree existence of the Bedouin life…no walls, no boundaries, no close neighbours. Your whispers and your cries will merge into the desert wind without a trace, allowing you a sense of freedom you have never experienced before.
Book your Arabian Nights Desert Love Weekend today.
OR………
If you are more of a sea person, then I suggest you try our Arabian Gulf Il Mare Passion.
Hire your own special dhow for your love weekend. Each of our dhows is equipped with state of the art computerized navigation so just sit back and relax with your loved one as the dhow charts its course from the marina and docks at your choice of islands every morning and every night. Our discreet captains will explain the navigation system to you before embarking and you can program the dhow on your journey of love.
Il Mare Passion dhows are equipped with state of the art toilet facilities and all that you need to make your weekend a happy retreat. You may arrange to have meals delivered by our discreet assistants directly to your dhow or you may choose to have your kitchenette equipped with a delectable assortment of traditional foods that you can enjoy at any time.
Il Mare Passion dhow sleeping quarters will leave you wanting more and more. A super king water bed will lull you into sleep or rock you into unimaginable ecstasy. For a more spacious effect and most importantly for your personal pleasure, the ceilings and walls are fully mirrored to enhance your experience.
Certainly if you prefer to be on deck, we will supply you with comfortable futon-like mattresses for your fresh air exercise routine. Of course you have the option of enjoying the uninhabited Kuwaiti islands where you can watch the awe inspiring sunrise in each other’s arms.
Book your Mare Passion weekend today for a unique intimate experience. We provide everything you need to satisfy and delight….. just bring yourselves and let the fun begin.
Equus February 1, 2007
Posted by jewaira in Film & Ads, Men, News.16 comments
Daniel Radcliffe (of Harry Potter fame) in a new role in the play Equus. Photos here. Too bad I won’t be here to see it.
Synopsis of the play from the promotional website of Equus:
“Alan Strang (Daniel Radcliffe) seems a normal, obedient 17-year old with a passion for horses. Then one night he blinds six horses with a hoof pick. What drove him to it? His life seems routine, his family loving, his pursuits harmless and yet he has been placed under psychiatric surveillance – an unresponsive patient who is woken each night by terrible nightmares. Only psychiatrist Martin Dysart (Richard Griffiths) seems able to grasp the answer to this psychological puzzle”
Of course everyone is awed by the fact that Daniel Radcliffe will be acting naked rather than being interested in the actual story of the play!
And just for a little fun:
Premonitions February 1, 2007
Posted by jewaira in Thoughts & Feelings.7 comments
My dream lurked like a shadow in my mind until suddenly I remembered that I had dreamt of a beautiful baby boy called Ahmed. He looked healthy and chubby for an abandoned baby. Where we were or with whom I cannot recall except that it was outdoors and someone had found a naked infant by the mosque whose skin was wet and slippery. I was told to hold him but first had to find two towels with which to dry and wrap him. I felt very pleased to take care of him and hold the child in my arms.
I struggled to remember the rest of the dream but the harder I tried, the more difficult it became to remember anything, so I let it go.