There is a ga_ , a hole in the whole where you were November 8, 2009
Posted by jewaira in Poetry.4 comments
But how much like moths
we were,
repeatedly
burning ourselves
against
this flame
blinded by the intensity
until merciful hands
of spirits stronger than our own,
cupped firm fingers
around us,
dimming the blinding light,
shutting out the attraction, and
granting us
space
.
,
.
and
clear vision.
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But
Are moths
ever free?
Hottest Arab Women November 7, 2009
Posted by jewaira in Lifestyle, Links, News, Women.10 comments
AskMen has compiled a list of the top ten hottest Arab women with Queen Rania at number one and a mixture of other women mostly of Lebanese descent in tow.
Don’t feel bad fellow citizens. There are no Gulfite women on the list because we are the hottest secret that will only be unveiled to the select few.
always there November 6, 2009
Posted by jewaira in Poetry.10 comments
Comfortable companionship,
Easy camaraderie.
I slip my hand
into yours,
and it envelops me
in the warmth
of your love.
Transgender people in Kuwait November 4, 2009
Posted by jewaira in Men, News, Relationships, Sexuality, Women.18 comments
A few nights ago I switched the tv onto a controversial talk show I had heard about in passing hosted by Nada Fadhel Dbouk. The show is called For Women Only and aired very late on Scope TV channel. Some women at a recent gathering had mentioned her and how vulgar and risque she was discussing controversial topics. I’d not heard of her before and I was interested to see the show since the topic concerned homosexuality that night and callers were invited to express their opinions and share their experiences.
What followed was not a discussion on homosexuality per se. The calls were all local (Kuwait) and several transgender males to females called in discussing the problems they face in their daily lives and the fear they have of being arrested (some had already spent time in prison simply for looking like a woman when presenting a male ID). At least three of the transgender callers that I recall on the program, sounded very much like women and indeed referred to themselves as females because that is what they felt like. Even Nada addressed them as females although technically, these callers were males as per their official identification.
I was interested to see that Nada tried to remain totally unbiased as she listened to the transgender callers and asked them questions about their lives.
The sad part of the plight of transgender is that even when they are officially diagnosed by doctors that identify their “medical” problem, the papers they are supplied with don’t make a difference. One caller said that she showed the policeman the paper and he scoffed saying that paper didnt prove anything to him and as far as he was concerned, the person in front of him was breaking the law by dressing like a person of the opposite sex.
Callers spoke about how difficult it was to be accepted within their families and especially their parents. They suffered humiliation when trying to live in the way they felt was natural.
It is not easy for male to female transgenders as in many cases, they may be physically and officially still males and this causes a lot of problems when dealing with female only company and issues surrounding them.
One of the callers was a prominent Bahraini civil rights lawyer Fawzia Jenahi who has taken it upon herself to represent those people who feel they should be of the other sex and who have officially been diagnosed as transgender by doctors. It has become her mission to defend people who may feel unfairly represented due to their sexuality.
As is usual on these types of programs, many people commented through sms on the lower ticker on the screen and one got the idea that transgenders were not really an acceptable concept to many viewers and there was a lot of negative or biased descriptions of the callers and the kinds of people they represented.
[The National Assembly approved an addition (Article 199 bis) to Article 198 of the Criminal Code. The amendment states that “any person committing an indecent act in a public place, or imitating the appearance of a member of the opposite sex, shall be subject to imprisonment for a period not exceeding one year or a fine not exceeding one thousand dinars [US$3,500].”
Embracing Life October 30, 2009
Posted by jewaira in Poetry.21 comments
Did I
hear
the rumble
of thunder?
See
lightning
white against my
window panes?
Wake up
to soft grey
skies?
Inhale
the scent of
new beginnings?
See
green leaves
pulsating
with new life?
Oh, Summer!
So long,
Too harsh,
and oh, so menacing!
Your time has past.
Farewell
and begone!
All’s Well that Ends Well August 19, 2009
Posted by jewaira in Announcements, Thoughts & Feelings.40 comments
Wishing all readers, casual and constant, peace and guidance
Blessings to all wayfarers who stumble upon this place. Come in for a cup of tea or whatever is on the table at the moment.
Thank you to all who have delighted me with their company upon my sojourn in the Boudoir the past few years.
I am embarking on an introspective journey that will necessitate a prolonged absence.
Who knows what dangers lurk along the way or what forks in the road I may lose myself upon.
The path may only involve a circuitous return to my original point of departure.
Or the path may lead me to broader enlightenment .
I believe August 19, 2009
Posted by jewaira in Love, Music.1 comment so far
On a more positive note, I would like to share the lyrics to a lovely song from the Billy Elliot musical I attended recently entitled I Believe:
If I believe that I could do anything,
Could I spread my wings and say goodbye
So many people told me I couldn’t win
But look at me now
Here I am in heaven’s sky
And sometimes I say a prayer
Wishing that you could be here with me
Cos I believe
I believe in love, it’s the best of everything
I believe in hope and the changes it can bring
If you believe then nothing can stand in your way
Just say, I believe
If hope’s the house I wanna be living in
Baby, I’ve got one foot in the door
Yes I do
All the years of waiting for your approval dear
Well I realised I don’t need it anymore
‘Cause I’m stronger everyday,
Now I’m strong enough to say, I believe
I believe in love, it’s the best of everything
I believe in hope and the changes it can bring
If you believe then nothing can stand in your way
I believe
It’s a fact of life that we’re all in the game
But it’s still your call
But we all play it
Sometimes we win, sometimes we fall
But that’s no reason just to give it up, cause after all
If you can’t choose what to be
You can choose what to dream
And I believe
I believe in love, it’s the best of everything
I believe in hope and the changes it can bring
If you believe then nothing can stand in your way
Just say, oh, I believe
Jahra wedding disaster August 18, 2009
Posted by jewaira in Husbands, Kuwait, Life, News, Relationships, Women.7 comments
There has been lots of discussion and speculation about the horrific tragedy in Kuwait a few days ago in which scores of women and children died and suffered from very serious burns. (Link)
Today, there are new developments to the story. The daily Kuwaiti Alqabas newspaper published the detailed confession of the woman responsible for setting fire to the tent.
She is referred to only by initials as is the custom in Kuwaiti newspapers.
N is 23 years old and the first wife.
Below is the rough translation of the interrogation published in Alqabas:
How did you plan the criminal act?
I did not plan it in advance. All that was on my mind was how to take revenge on my husband and his sisters. My sisters-in-law were responsible for my misery and the discord between my husband and I. I wanted to ruin the wedding party in any way I could.
What did you decide after that?
I knew the wedding was going to be held in a house and not in a special occasions ballroom. I knew it was going to be held in a tent outside the house so that is how I got the idea to burn the tent, after thinking of many scenarios. I finally decided to go to the wedding party location and execute my plan.
How did you execute your plan and with whose help?
No one helped me. I called a taxi who took me to Farwaniya and from there I took another taxi to Jahra.
What is the name of the taxi company you called and why did you go to Farwaniya first?
I called (…) taxi company but I only had 5 KD on me and a call taxi fare is 5 KD from Al-Rihab to Al-Jahra. I told him to take me to Farwaniya for a dinar and a half and from there I took a roaming taxi [cheaper] to my husband’s house where the wedding was taking place and it was around 7:30.
What happend after that and when did you get to the wedding party tent?
As soon as I arrived in Farwaniya I took another taxi and asked him to go to the gas station. There I asked the attendant to fill a mineral bottle of gasoline for me. I had a packet of matches in my handbag that I had brought with me from home and I arrived at the wedding around 8:30.
How did you execute the crime?
The whole way from Farwaniya to Jahra, all I could think about was how to revenge on my sisters in law and ruining the wedding party and when I arrived I asked the taxi driver to wait on the other street for me and I got out of the car and headed towards the tent. There, I began to pour gasoline on the edges of the tent and lit the fire and ran off in the same taxi.
How did you light the fire?
With a packet of matches. I struck the first matchstick which did not light but the second one did and I did not look back at the tent once it caught fire however I heard the guests screaming and thought that I was successful in ruining the party and returned home.
Did you go back home immediately?
No. I went to the police station and asked them to register a case against my husband and his sisters and I accused them of calling me and threatening me. But the police didn’t do anything and I left the station and went home..
How did you know that the fire caused a catastrophe?
By television and my brothers called me to ask if I was behind the fire and I told them I had not left the house at all and had done nothing.
What is the cause of the discord between you and your husband?
My husband is wishy washy and my discord was with his sisters; they are the ones who kicked me out of the house and decided to marry him off again thus ruining my life and the life of my child. And for that I decided to take revenge.
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end.
Note: Immediately since the accident, a blood drive and call for people to donate blood to the fire victims has been announced. The bride got away but lost her mother and sister- in law.
Just Do It Later August 16, 2009
Posted by jewaira in Death, Film & Ads, Life, News.10 comments
The following short film was made to shock teenagers into thinking twice before texting whilst driving.
I think that this kind of awareness campaign should be also directed to all adults considering the number of drivers in Kuwait that think they are invincible.It’s downright frightening because once something like this happens, there is just no turning back.
Reaction time slows by 35% while writing or reading texts when driving. And almost 50% of UK teenagers between 18-24 texted while driving. (Link to BBC article)
Wishing you all safe driving.
Batwings across piccadilly August 16, 2009
Posted by jewaira in Poetry.4 comments
she runs wild
a gothic vampire
with wild grey hair in
showstopping fashion
arched like an open jaw.
skinny girl scurrying down piccadilly pavement
her batwings
black
dainty
so real
the boys chase her down the road
but she only wants one boy
and she calls him a Swine!
as she dashes after him in bold black stilletos.
Ya Wad Ya T’eel August 15, 2009
Posted by jewaira in Kuwait, Life, Men, Music.9 comments
Perusing the Kuwaiti newspapers, I came across an amusing little bit in the crime section.
An Egyptian man living in Kuwait went to the airport to meet his new bride who was arriving from Egypt.
Instead of just receiving her and then partying later on, he decided to take a troupe of friends with their musical instruments (unspecified in the newspaper but I imagine they were drum like ) to give the bride a proper homecoming (zaffa) at the airport arrivals hall.
However, it seems he got a literal unhappy “zaffa” when the authorities questioned him about his intentions and what he and his friends were going to do with all those instruments.
He was told it was not allowed to do that but it appears he insisted on expressing his joy at her arrival and consequently was arrested and had a case against him in the Jleeb police station. (link) (link)
What’s the harm in spreading a little joy and happiness? What if the whole arrivals hall turned into a mass celebration for the newlyweds and one could hear ululations all around?
The clip below has nothing to do with the man above. In fact, the late Souad Houssni is singing about a man who is the complete opposite of our merry Egyptian groom.
Pierce my heart August 14, 2009
Posted by jewaira in Poetry.5 comments
pierce
my heart.
the poetry
stops.
twisted.
garbled emotions
bleed
soak my skin
with anxiety.
clutching
at whispers
threadbare
echoes
of lavender fields
and scent of summer
with you,
coming to an end
so soon.
running into the vortex August 14, 2009
Posted by jewaira in Poetry.8 comments
running
running
on legs
that know no direction.
instinctive
fear
driving me
into the vortex
I dread
to meet.
hollow voices
vacant eyes
empty pages
running
running
into the unknown.
